Friday, November 9, 2018

If not Lives 1st, What 1st?


Have you noticed that the world seems to have gone noticeably crazy? A couple of days ago I turned on a news channel and the first reports were these:

● Litchfield Park, AZ – 11 year-old boy murdered his grandmother by shooting her in the back of the head and then committed suicide. Why? She had been telling him to clean up his room.1

Daytona Beach, FL – 15 year-old boy strangles mother to death. Why? They had an argument over his grades.2

● Chippewa Falls, WI – 10 year-old girl charged with murder for stomping head of 6 month-old baby boy.3

● Rowan County, NC – 11 year-old boy charged with putting sewing needles in Halloween candy.4
  
The next day there was the shooting at the bar in California5the 307th mass shooting in America this year.6 Even though these things seem “crazy” to most of us, our work at the TOV Center suggests that there is a factor that we need to consider. A growing number of Americans value other things above human lives – attention, power, unexamined beliefs, predatory profits, entertainment, individual appetites, desires and longings, addictions, etc.

We discovered a standard for making decisions and examining human actions in the ancient Hebrew text of Bible. We call it the TOV Standard. It doesn’t involve or promote a theology. Almost everyone that hears about calls it “common sense.” It is a tool that helps us keep Lives 1st in our thoughts, decisions and actions. When you need to make a decision, write down the answers to the questions before you make the decision:

1. Whose lives will be protected or harmed?

2. Whose lives will be preserved or threatened?

3. Whose lives will become more or less functional?

4. Whose quality of life will be increased or decreased?

5. Who will receive or pay money?

This is a model you can also teach very young children. As a matter of fact, many times children have an easier time answering the questions because they haven’t learned how to rationalize and justify actions that fail to measure up to the TOV Standard – like adults often do so well.

When you are involved in a decision making discussion use your creativity to come up with TOV options!
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Wednesday, November 7, 2018

The Health-Wealth Gap grinds down the body in a host of unhealthy ways.


The growing gulf between rich and poor inflicts biological damage on bodies and brains.

Western cultures have long cherished the notion that all people are created equal. But in the real world, our lives are not balanced with equal opportunities and resources. This distinction was noted mordantly in 1894 by author Anatole France, who wrote that “the law, in its majestic equality, forbids the rich as well as the poor to sleep under bridges, to beg in the streets, and to steal bread.” The rich, of course, need none of these things, whereas the poor often have little choice. And economic disparity has only gotten worse during the past several decades, particularly in the U.S. In 1976 the richest 1 percent of U.S. citizens owned 9 percent of the country’s wealth; today they own nearly 24 percent. This trend echoes around the globe.

Life in societies with wide gaps between rich and poor creates ongoing social and psychological stresses. These grind down the body in a host of unhealthy ways, affecting our brains, our immune systems and our DNA, according to a broad range of research.

The above are quotes from Dr. Robert M. Sapolsky’s article “The Health-Wealth Gap” in the November 2018 issue of Scientific American, pp. 63-67. Pick-up a copy or view it online at http://scientificamerican.com .
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Friday, November 2, 2018

Do you realize how fast a democracy can be brought down?


When Hitler came to power, the Germany population was 94% Christian – 40% Roman Catholic and 54% Protestant – Nazi Germany had a larger Christian population than the United States of America. Germany was a democratic nation with a 94% Christian population! Keep in mind that neither democracy nor Christianity prevented the events that combined to bring down the German nation. Notice how quickly things changed in Germany, realizing that social media did not exist then. Thing that took weeks, months and years back then to happen, take place in hours, days, weeks and months today. Read the complete blog at -- https://lives1st.blogspot.com/2018/11/do-you-realize-how-fast-democracy-can.html


Thursday, November 1, 2018

Prayer from Christian and Jewish Perspectives


Listen to Rabbi Jeffrey Leynor and former pastor Jim Myers discuss the differences between Christian and Jewish perspectives about prayer. This discussion will change the way you pray.



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Tuesday, October 30, 2018

You filled a dying man’s days with a sated joy. . .


When Breath Becomes Air” was written by Paul Kalanithi, a man that had just completed his residency in neurological surgery and a postdoctoral fellowship in neuroscience. He had a MPhil in History and Philosophy of Science and Medicine from Cambridge and graduated from the Yale School of Medicine. He also received the American Academy of Neurological Surgery’s highest aware for research. At the age of 36, on the verge of completing a decade’s worth of training in medicine, he was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. During the last 22 months of his life he wrote this book. The following quotes are from this beautiful, inspiring and informative book – a story written by a dying father to an infant daughter.

“A few months ago, I celebrated my fifteenth college reunion at Stanford and stood out on the quad, drinking a whiskey as a pink sun dipped below the horizon; when old friends called out parting promises – “We’ll see you at the twenty-fifth!”— it seemed rude to respond with “Well… probably not.”

Everyone succumbs to finitude. I suspect I am not the only one who reaches this pluperfect state. Most ambitions are either achieved or abandoned; either way, they belong to the past. The future, instead of the ladder toward the goals of life, flattens out into a perpetual present. Money, status, all the vanities the preacher of Ecclesiastes described hold so little interest: a chasing after wind, indeed.

Yet one thing cannot be robbed of her futurity: our daughter, Cady. I hope I’ll live long enough that she has some memory of me. Words have a longevity I do not. I had thought I could leave her a series of letters — but what would they say? I don’t know what this girl will be like when she is fifteen; I don’t even know if she’ll take to the nickname we’ve given her. There is perhaps only one thing to say to this infant, who is all future, overlapping briefly with me, whose life, barring the improbable, is all but past.

That message is simple:

‘When you come to one of the many moments in life where you must give an account of yourself, provide a ledger of what you have been, and done, and meant to the world, do not, I pray, discount that you filled a dying man’s days with a sated joy, a joy unknown to me in all my prior years, a joy that does not hunger for more and more but rests, satisfied. In this time, right now, that is an enormous thing.’”

(When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi © 2016 by Corcovado, Inc., Random House, New York, NY)

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Monday, October 22, 2018

The Foundation of a Society of Shalom: Strong Gender Equal Relationships Built on the Sacredness of Life & Valuing “The Image of God” in Yourself and Others.


Shalom is a Hebrew word that has traditionally been translated “peace,” but in the Hebrew language shalom means much more than “peace” means to English speakers today.

Shalom does not have the passive, even negative, connotation of the word “peace.” It does not mean merely the absence of strife. It is pregnant with positive, active and energetic meaning and association. It connotes totality, health, wholesomeness, harmony, success, the completeness and richness of living in an integrated social milieu.1

Even today when Hebrew speakers meet or part they wish each other “shalom” or they inquire about each other’s “shalom.” The foundation of a social environment of shalom is strong gender equal relationships built on the sacredness of life and valuing “the image of God” in others.

The idea of a Society of Shalom first appears in the Scriptures of Christianity and Judaism in the first chapter of the first book – Genesis 1 – in the account of the creation of humans.

27 God created the ADAM in His image;
in the image of God He created him (the ADAM);
male and female He created them.

ADAM is the Hebrew word that means “humans” in this context. “The ADAM” is created “in the image of God.” “The ADAM” is a “them” – not a “her” or a “him.”

A male is not the “the image of God.”

A female is not “the image of God.”

Viewing God as a male or female is not viewing the “image of God.”

“The image of God” requires a model that includes “both genders.”

In this ancient text, living as “the image of God” is the highest possible level of human of achievement, fulfillment and happiness.

Males and females living together in harmony as equals in a society of strong relationships built on the Blessing of the Humans in the Genesis account.

The foundational institution of a “Society of Shalom” is “the Family.” It is the most important and most sacred institution of a Society of Shalom. When God blessed the first two humans He created “the family.” His blessing revealed His vision of the kind of family the humans are to create, with instructions for males and females to fulfill their roles and responsibilities.

● Life as part of “the image of God” is valued above “individual power and wealth.”

● Male and female are defined by the physical capacity to produce offspring.

● Male and female are equal genders in relationships and as members of society.

● Male and female are equals in the exercise of power.

● Male and female have equal rights and responsibilities.

● Male and female have gender specific unique functions.

Co-parenting their offspring is a very important role of male and female.

God’s blessing empowered humans to successfully fulfill their roles and responsibilities. In the Genesis account of the Flood, as well as in other biblical accounts where societies fail, the primary reason for social failure is the failure of parents to mentor and teach their children how to “subdue” their Earth souls.

In the Genesis account individual males and females have an Earth soul and individuals can reflect the “image of an animal” through their actions when their earthly soul appetites, desires and longings drive their actions and they do harm to human lives – their lives and the lives of others.

● Animals are driven by instincts.

● Animals live their entire lives in physical environments determined by nature.

● Humans have the creative power to change physical environments.

● Humans have the biological capacity to learn how to control their impulses and exercise self-control over their earthly appetites, desires and longings.

● Humans have the power to individually and collectively protect and preserve lives, make lives more functional and increase the quality of life for themselves and others.

God empowered humans to live lives at a higher and more fulfilling level than animals. Parents have been endowed with the responsibility of mentoring and teaching their offspring how to live at that higher level.  

● Mentoring is demonstrating how to reveal “the image of God” through words and actions.

● Teaching is an ongoing process that uses situations that occur in the normal course of life as teaching opportunities.

Parenting is a lifestyle, not a program or service that cannot be “subbed out.”

● Humans are biologically endowed to be mentored and taught.

This is the first blog in a series I call, “Societies of Shalom.” Be sure you do not miss future blogs by following the TOV Center Lives 1st Blog and/or “Liking” our Lives 1st Facebook Page. Making our society better begins with making our families better. We want to help you make your family better -- and as more of us do that our society will become better too.
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1 Hebrew: The Eternal Language by William Chomsky © 1957 by the Jewish Publications Society of America, Philadelphia, PA; p. 4.


Sunday, October 21, 2018

What the "Image of God" Really Means, God’s Parenting Model, Purposes of Life, Exercising Power & much more.


The Sixth Day of Creation is packed with instructions, principles and wisdom most Bible readers are completely unaware of. Rabbi Jeffrey Leynor and Jim Myers discovered the things below, and more, embedded in the Hebrew words of the account of the Sixth Day of Creation in Genesis 1.

● Humans share an Earthly soul with the animals.

● “The image of God” is a “them” -- not a “him” or a “her.

● God’s model of “parenting.”

● Gender equality in the ancient text.

● “Impulse control” and “self-discipline.”

● God’s model for exercising power.

● Purposes of life.

● Jewish & Christian “images of God” are different.

● Judaism & Christian Religions view history differently.

View the discussions between Rabbi Jeffrey Leynor and Jim Myers about the Sixth Day of Creation by clicking on the links below.

Creation of Animals (6:37 minutes)

Creation of Humans #1 (6:41 minutes)

Creation of Humans #2 (6:31 minutes)


Dominion & Exercising Power (8:58 minutes)

God's Diets for Humans & Others (4:16 minutes)

Jewish & Christian Images of God (11:48 minutes)

To see the complete list of videos for the First Account of CreationClick Here.

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